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Mission Teams -
Thailand
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Society /Culture
- Thai people have a very
tender ego and a deep sense of national independence, pride and
dignity. When relating to them, it is best to avoid criticizing
Thailand and Thai people. Thais refer to their dignity as "face."
Contrary to the American belief that everyone is born with dignity,
Thais have only the dignity that they receive from others. Do
everything to avoid causing loss of face. The Western ego is focused
on the self and its needs, leading us to believe that our thoughts,
feelings, and needs at the moment have immediate priority and that
we have a right to assert them. The Thai ego is focused on others
and their needs. A Thai tends to think his thoughts, feelings, and
needs at the moment can be deferred because he knows that perhaps in
the future they are likely to be fulfilled.
- It is very bad manners to
raise your voice or express anger. Thais value a "cool heart" and a
warm smile. This will get you much farther in a tough spot. In
public settings, loud, gregarious behavior is frowned upon.
- The hands-together,
prayer-like gesture that the Thais make is called the "wai." It is
the common respectful greeting, and is used as an apology for social
mistakes or inconvenience. The wai is initiated by a
status-inferior. It is done by moving the hands together just under
the chin, and dipping the head to varying degrees depending on the
status of the person being addressed. Thais may not expect tourists
to initiate a wai, but you should always respond in kind to a wai
offered to you.
- Show respect to any
Buddhist statues. It's the law. You must remove your shoes when
entering a temple. In some temples, shorts are not allowed. Men must
wear long pants, and women must wear skirts. It is also against the
law to blaspheme the Buddhist religion.
- Respect must also be shown
to anything that bears the likeness of the King (money, stamps,
etc.). Disrespecting the King can result in deportation or even
severe prison sentences. A film clip of the King is shown before
every movie played in a theatre. All persons must rise and remain
standing until the end of the clip or you will be removed from the
theatre. Do not say anything disrespectful about the King. Thais
revere their King highly. The elderly in Thai culture are also to be
respected. Try not to contradict them in word, deed, gesture or
facial expression.
- The head is considered the
noblest part of the body, so avoid any gestures or movements in
which any part of your body might touch, cross over, or approach the
top of the head. If you are a tall person, keep in mind that to the
Thai, a person whose head is highest is demanding respect. You may
need to lean forward a little when speaking with Thais. Anyone
passing directly in front of others should dip their head lower. If
you must get up and leave a circle of people seated on the floor,
keep your head low and move behind the backs of people (outside the
circle).
- Feet are considered the
basest part of the body and are thought to be dirty. Pointing the
sole of your foot at anyone is equivalent to giving them "the
finger." The feet must never be used to point at anything or anyone.
Don't allow them to touch anyone. Avoid the impulse to use furniture
as foot rests or the open a door with the foot. No one should ever
be stepped over, but instead, politely ask the person to move. Never
stop over anything (boxes, bags, a coffee table, etc.) unless it is
something that should be on the ground.
- Remove your shoes before
entering anyone's house or whenever you see shoes or sandals outside
an entrance-way.
- You can point at something
but never at someone. When beckoning someone, keep the palm down and
wave your fingers toward you. The palm up motion is used to call
animals. Use your right hand (or both hands) to give and receive
things. The left hand is generally considered dirty.
- Thai people tend to dress
modestly, although n recent years their dress code has been
influenced by the West. Don't wear short shorts or tank tops. Women
should wear dresses or skirts and blouses (not sleeveless) in
church. Men should wear dress slacks or "Dockers" and collared
shirts. During ministry, blue jeans and shorts are discouraged. If
boarding with Thais, men should wear pajamas or shorts to bed.
- Do not show physical
affection in public. Dating between team members is not allowed.
Male members must never meet with female Thais alone and vise versa.
- Traditional Thai toilets
are flush with the floor and are used by standing on the side
"wings" and squatting. They are flushed by pouring water from a
dipper into them until cleared. It is wise to carry toilet paper
with you wherever you go, as it is not usually provided.
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Buddhism
Buddhism dates back to the
fifth century before Christ in Northern India where its founder,
Siddhartha Gautama, lived. Siddhartha grew up in an era when Hindu
mythology with its numerous gods and spiritual beings were taken for
granted as the foundation of any religious thought. Therefore, many
similarities between Buddhism and Hinduism can be found. The belief in
karma is one of these similarities. Karma assumes that life has
neither beginning nor end, but repeats itself in a continual cycle of
birth, death and rebirth. These rebirths are influenced by the good
works one is able to accumulate during one's lifetime. If the amount
of good works exceeds the amount of bad works, it is possible to reach
a higher existence in the next life. The lowest level of existence is
that of a demon in hell. From there one can work one's way up to an
insect, then an animal, a human being, and ultimately as an
enlightened one in the heavenly realms.
The goal of Buddhism is to
find a way of escape from the endless cycle of birth and rebirth. One
religious exercise is called "making merit." Merit can be earned in
many ways. One may go to the temple and burn incense, meditate, be
blessed by a monk, donate money, purchase and place gold leaf on
Buddha statues, say prayers, ring temple bells, etc.
At the end of Siddhartha's
search for the truth, he came to believe that all of life is suffering
and that suffering is always connected with a variety of undesirable
attachments to this world and its pleasures. Even love is undesirable
because it also leads to suffering. While attempting to totally
separate from all such attachments through the use of meditation and
right living, Siddhartha had a mystical experience referred to as
"enlightenment." He believed that through this experience he had
escaped the cycle of karma and entered another realm known as
"Nirvana." Nirvana is a state of non-existence in which all human
attachments that cause suffering are cut off.
Siddhartha, now known as
Buddha, meaning "the enlightened one," taught that salvation is
achieved by following his "Eight-Fold Path" of right understanding,
right thought, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right
effort, right mindfulness and right connection. Ultimately this path
leads to the freeing of oneself from the evil attachments that cause
suffering.
Most Buddhists (especially
among Theravada Buddhism which is practiced in Thailand), realizing
they have no chance of reaching Nirvana in their lifetime, resign
themselves to avoiding a bad existence in the next life. They do this
by trying to keep the five precepts, which Buddhism regards as basic
morality. These precepts are:
- Do not kill any living
being
- Do not steal or take
things not given
- Do not engage in sexual
misbehavior
- Do not lie or speak
falsely
- Do not take intoxicating
drinks or drugs
The images of Buddha seen in
temples and virtually every home and business in Thailand were
originally meant as reminders and encouragements to follow the steps
of Buddha. Later, however, people attributed supernatural powers to
these images and began to worship them and pray to them.
Sources used:
Allyn, Eric. Thai Phrase Handbook. 1993. Bangkok: Bua Luang
Publishing Company.
Wagner, Elisabeth. Tearing
Down Strongholds. 1988. Hong Kong: Christian Literature Crusade.
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Language
Thai is a tonal language,
which means that each syllable of every word must be pronounced in one
of five tones. These tones or inflections are: high, mid, low, rising,
and falling. You will not be expected to master these tones, but it
will help you to know that if you seem unable to pronounce a word or
someone's name properly, it's probably because you are saying the word
in the wrong tone. Avoid extreme expressiveness in your voice and you
may be more easily understood.
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| 1 |
nung |
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6 |
hok |
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11 |
sip-et |
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16 |
sip-hok |
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| 2 |
song |
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7 |
jet |
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12 |
sip-song |
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17 |
sip-jet |
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| 3 |
saam |
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8 |
bak |
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13 |
sip-saam |
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18 |
sip-bak |
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| 4 |
see |
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9 |
gaw |
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14 |
sip-see |
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19 |
sip-gaw |
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| 5 |
haa |
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10 |
sip |
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15 |
sip-haa |
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20 |
yee-sip (yee-sip-et...) |
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30 |
saam-sip... |
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Men |
Women |
| hello /
goodbye |
sawatdee cop |
sawatdee kaa |
| how are you? |
sabaidee mai
cop? |
sabaidee mai
kaa? |
| I'm fine |
sabaidee com |
sabaidee kaa |
| thank you |
caup coon cop |
caup coon kaa |
| you're
welcome |
mai ben rai
cop |
mai ben rai
kaa |
| what is your
name? |
coon chew
aa-rai cop? |
coon chew
aa-rai kaa? |
| you |
coon |
coon |
| me/my/mine |
pome |
dee-chun |
| my name is
_____ |
pome chew
_____ |
dee-chun chew
_____ |
| God bless you |
pra-jow ouay
paun cop |
pra-jow ouay
paun kaa |
| how much is
it? |
Taow rai cop? |
Taow rai kaa? |
| I love you
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pome rock
coon |
dee-chun rock
coon |
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God loves you |
pra-jow rock coon |
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Jesus loves you |
pra-yea-suu rock coon |
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Where is the bathroom? |
hong naam you tee nai? |
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How old are you? |
coon aa-you taow rai? |
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Bible |
pra-come-pee |
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sing |
wrong plang |
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mother |
mae |
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father |
pau |
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boy child / girl child |
louk chai / louk sau |
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older brother / sister |
pea chai / pea sau |
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younger brother / sister |
nong chai / nong sau |
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City of Chiangmai
MONEY:
There are many currency exchangers in Chiangmai and the rates vary
according to different banks. We recommend Bangkok Bank, Thai Farmers
Bank, Bank of Asia, and other exchange banks located in Central Mall
and around the Night Bazaar. Travelers checks and other foreign
currencies (except RMB) can be exchanged at any bank money exchange
branch; however, there is a transaction fee. For travelers checks,
remember to bring your passport.
LOCAL TRANSPORTATION:
The two forms of local transportation are the red trucks, "song taews",
and the three-wheeled "tuk-tuks". With either of these, you'll need to
bargain. Song taews start at 10 baht and prices increase depending on
distance. To catch them, tell the driver where you want to go. If he
is going that way, he will tell you to get in. If you have a big
group, you can negotiate a price or rent the truck for longer periods
of time. Tuk-tuks are more expensive than song taews. Tuk-tuks average
around 30-50 baht.
You can rent motorcycles along
the inner rim of the East Side of the moat. You'll need a passport and
current driver's license and approximately 200 baht/24 hours. We
recommend North Wheels for car rental. They are also located on the
inner rim of the East Side of the moat, north of Tha Pae Gate. Or you
can call for free pickup and delivery at 216-189 or 418-223-4. You'll
need your passport, and the rate for a sedan is about 1,200 baht/24
hours.
TELEPHONE:
The "red" public pay phones are for local city calls, the "blue" ones
are for long distance calls in Thailand and the "yellow" ones are for
international calls. Local calls cost 5 baht. Card phones are
available in major shopping areas, post offices, and other public
locations. Phone cards are available at the post office and the
airport.
MAILING:
Airmail letters to North America weighing 10 grams or less cost 19
baht and 15 grams or less cost 37 baht. (For those of us who do not
think in grams, a postcard is usually 19 baht and a lightweight letter
is usually 28 baht.) A great place to mail boxes is called Mail Box
Express in the Night Bazaar.
GROCERY STORES:
Topps Grocery Stores are located at the bottom of Central Mall and
Airport Plaza. There are two Rim Ping Superstores that carry a variety
of western food items. One is located next to the Novotel Hotel on
Chotana Road and the other is west of Chiang Mai Community Church
along the river. Across the street from the Central Mall is a small
store called Parker's. This is a small import food store. Chiangmai
has several superstore/warehouse style stores along the north side of
the Superhighway. They are called Carrefour, Makro and Auchan. A
fourth store called Lotus is located on the Hang Dong Road (several
kilometers south of Airport Plaza).
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